On Saturday I board a Lufthansa flight with twenty-seven young musicians and five chaperones for a nine day tour of Italy. We will perform two concerts while in the country (last night we gave a preview concert in Crystal Lake for parents and other well-wishers) and spend time in Rome, Venice, and Florence. Today I spent a couple of hours tying up last minute loose ends before I leave Champaign: insurance coverage for the summer - check, trip to the bank - check, laundry - in progress.
Fifteen years ago this summer I prepared to embark on the most exciting adventure of my young life - a month long tour across Europe with friends and classmates in conjunction with a humanities course at Rosemount High School. It was the summer between my junior and senior years and I remember the anticipation and excitement of leaving the country for the very first time. I even had a countdown to departure in my bedroom:

This summer, as I prepare to go back to Italy, my thoughts have wandered back to June of 1996 (the flight overseas was almost exactly fifteen years ago to the day). Italy was the midpoint of our itinerary. We began in England, traveled through France, Switzerland, grazed the southeastern corner of Austria and then headed south toward Venice and then Rome.
Being a teenager I was awestruck by the splendor of the trip but I was also an egocentric little punk so it was by this point in the trip that I had officially "gotten sick" of everyone. "Here I am in this amazing place but these people are driving me CRAZY!" I remember quietly wandering away from the group whenever I could. Once in Venice, where I almost got lost in the narrow, winding streets among the thousands of tourists from all over the world (I remember thinking there weren't many Venetians in Venice), I saw a young boy fall into one of the canals. Gross. I also turned seventeen in Venice but I didn't tell any of my friends that it was my birthday because "they just wouldn't understand." Boy, did I ever teach them a lesson!
Another time I spent an entire day by myself wandering the streets of Rome well off the beaten path, getting lost, not really having a good time because I didn't know where the &$@*! I was, and only finding my way back because I managed to remember our group leader's advice: "if you get lost, just find this bus number ____ and get on." To my relief the bus took me right back to the hotel and I was able to find the restaurant where we were meeting for dinner from there.
After these excursions I managed to suck it up and enjoy myself in the company of others once again. By the time we made it to Spain I was back to "I love you guys." All it took was almost getting lost in a foreign city to make me realize that I actually did like the people I was with. Amazing isn't it? Maybe I just needed to create more drama because the trip had been going too smoothly up to that point. Whatever the reason, I'm glad I didn't get mugged, kidnapped, or left behind by my group.
My favorite memory of Rome was, of all things, doing laundry. We went to a laundromat owned by a Pakistani guy named Cobra (I assume this was a nickname), who was also a DJ at a local night club. This guy was awesome and he was SUPER excited that we were all Americans (the TVs in his laundromat were playing MTV Europe). "HEY USA!" he shouted as we walked in. His English wasn't great but it was WAY better than any of our Italian. We settled in and did our laundry. "JACKIE CHAN!" he shouted at the Korean girl in our group.
Unfortunately for my friend, Chris, he was unable to get a machine until late in the evening and Cobra was getting ready to close. "Leave your laundry. I take care of it. You come back tomorrow," he suggested as he simultaneously began closing up shop and inviting us to his discotheque that evening. After a few moments of hesitation (think a group of teenagers consulting one another about the advice we received to NEVER LEAVE YOUR PERSONAL BELONGINGS WITH ANYONE ELSE) Chris finally agreed to leave all of his clothes, except for those which were on his back, with Cobra and head back to the hotel.
Of course, looking back on the situation, it was totally legit but we were all young and nervous. We had all been warned to not trust anyone. And once again teenaged egocentricity reared its ugly head: "what if he steals your dirty laundry, Chris?" Seriously.
The next day we headed back to Cobra's laundromat. Chris was followed by a paparazzi of teenaged Americans with cameras. Everyone did who laundry the night before came back along with a few others from the group who were simply curious. "What is he going to do if his laundry isn't there? What if Cobra isn't there? What if he took Chris's laundry?" We managed to work ourselves up into a bit a frenzy over this whole situation. When we arrived at the shop we were greeted with "HEY USA!" It was Cobra, standing in front of his machines and TVs playing MTV Europe, and he had Chris's laundry ready to go just like he said. In the end Chris got his clothes back, he made a friend in Cobra, and we got to take pictures.